Category: Relationships

What are the chances, really?!

Ok, so today as I read 47million tweets and post about OMG! BLOGGGGHERRRR! (don’t worry, I’m just jealous) I got to thinking.

I am so interested in the human dynamic. In the dynamics of women. In the dynamics of blogging women. Of MOMMY BLOGGERS.

On the internet we are just a footprint of ourselves. Just as a pedophile can be a 16 year old boy looking for a 16 year old girl in a chat room. Seriously. How much do we REALLY know about our fellow bloggers?

Yeah, they seem picture perfect on the internet but what if you meet and suddenly the witty quips of the internet are stripped away. What if they look different. What if you are just well, NOT COMPATIBLE?

I mean- I know no ones looking for a date here. So, I suppose it’s different but how well can you really know someone you’ve never met?

I am so interested to see in the future (Blogher11?) how it plays out for me. I wonder if the women I have come to love on the internet will be just as easy to love in person. If our conversations will have awkward moments or if it will be like we’ve known each other forever.

Part of me is excited to see everyone’s tweets that are there in NYC sharing the excitement. To see their photos and blog posts. And mostly- to see how the dynamic of the “group” will change once people have met. Is that strange? Will certain people be closer? Will certain people who were online BFFs suddenly stopping loving each other so much?

It’s like a soap opera. And although I wish I was there living it, I am certainly content to watch it unfold from the privacy of my own home. Where I don’t have to compete for cutest business card or cutest shoes or most blog hits or you know- that kind of stuff.

Also? I want to know who gets awkwardly TOO WASTED and alienates every one. And who tries to get everyone to smoke a joint and who actually smokes. (FYI, I would.) Who is prettier in person? Who is a bitch in person? Who is most like themselves online and who is putting on a great show? Who didn’t disclose that their blog pictures are 10 years old and they are really 40 & 300+ pounds?

Blogher. It’s exciting!!

Boys.

You Guys: I am already panicking about my sons. I am panicking because ONE DAY THEY WILL LEAVE! Continue reading 'Boys.'»

I have to say this & it might lose me friends.

I need to say it.

MAN UP. Continue reading 'I have to say this & it might lose me friends.'»

It’s Friday, which is good & bad.

I am having a really hard month. I need more time in this month. I really do. I need it to last just a week or two longer so I am able to take care of some REALLY important things. But, I know it might not and because of this, things are just going to get harder- unfortunately. It’s sometimes very hard being the person to shoulder information because it weighs on you. I tend to be the “tough one” and I don’t like to ever disappoint people. So, I try to solve my problems myself. Continue reading 'It’s Friday, which is good & bad.'»

Abortions & the mother of 3.

I’m 27 years old. I have 3 children. I have a loving husband & a beautiful (small, yes, but beautiful) home.

When I was 20 years old, things were different.

Do you ever look back on something and think… What if? What if I had done this or done that? What if I had become a mother before I could legally drink a beer?

It’s something I think about often. Continue reading 'Abortions & the mother of 3.'»

The secret to a happy marriage.

Embrace your gender role. There I said it. Feel free not to go any further than that if you think I’m wrong. Continue reading 'The secret to a happy marriage.'»

Daily Dose: Mr. & Mrs.

The husband stayed home today with the family. I love that he works for himself and can sometimes take a day off to help me when I am really super duper exhausted. Continue reading 'Daily Dose: Mr. & Mrs.'»

You asked- I answered.

And I hope you enjoy, because my grandmothers have access to this site and that’s kinda scary considering the questions. But, guess what? I didn’t give you guys an outline of what was OK to ask and now I have to answer. (Well, I don’t have to- but I will!) So here goes kids! More than you ever cared to know about me: (GRANDMA! YOU DON’T WANT TO KNOW!) Continue reading 'You asked- I answered.'»

Unoriginal Content:

OK, first, like, copying is soooooo high school. Totally, right? Continue reading 'Unoriginal Content:'»

Probably the most touching thing I have ever read.

Jill over at Baby Rabies tweeted a link to this post tonight. I wasn’t prepared. I think it’s the most honest, beautiful thing I’ve ever read. Continue reading 'Probably the most touching thing I have ever read.'»

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